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Handling Bad Behavior in Children’s Church

We know that churches want every child to have a good time at church and, hopefully, hear the Gospel and be saved. However, it is vitally important that churches never tolerate consistently excessive problematic behavior from any child, particularly if the behavior is violent.

  A Louisiana appellate court recently ruled that a lawsuit against a church could go forward. The charge? That the Christian school should be held responsible for a child’s injuries caused by another child with a history of violent behavior, such as hitting and kicking other students.

  This case moving forward is monumental. Churches and Christian schools need to understand that the potential exists for them to be held liable if they don’t observe and adequately address violent behavior in their minor attendees. This is just one more reason why we here at CLA strongly recommend that every church require adequate adult supervision in every child’s class. If staffing is inadequate, don’t offer the class. 

Every church should also routinely create documentation of every incident of bad behavior. Additionally, churches definitely have the option to ask parents to keep children with them in the adult services if problematic behavior continues. 

Please don’t neglect these simple preventive measures to protect your ministry. 

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What Is the Wall of Separation?

In modern times, there is a considerable amount of confusion about the idea that America has a “wall of separation between the church and the state.” Some people erroneously believe that the separation of church and state means that Christians should essentially never express their views in public, that only secular ideas have a place in the public square. Though modern secularists may prefer this interpretation, it has no foundation in American history.

More than 200 years ago, the Danbury Baptist Convention was concerned that the newly formed federal government might attempt to interfere with their freedom of worship, and they expressed their concerns to President Thomas Jefferson. After all, in the colonists’ home nation of England, the government often forced churches to reflect the religious preferences of the monarch. Jefferson wrote a letter to assure the Convention that the Constitution did not allow the federal government to intervene in church affairs, saying that a “wall of separation” had been erected between church and state.

Jefferson’s letter was written to say that the federal government could not force certain religious views on citizens, not to say that religious expression in the public sphere was prohibited. Any other interpretation of “separation of church and state” is erroneous.

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Software Licenses

In many cases, Christian ministries receive bad advice. They are sometimes told that their IT guy knows how to purchase a single copy of a program, but install it ministry-wide, thereby saving thousands of dollars. However, purchasing one copy of a software license does not give the ministry the legal right to install that software on multiple devices. 

It can be helpful to think of software as a twenty-dollar bill. If you have a bill, you can spend it on anything you like; but you may not photocopy it and spend it over and over! That, of course, would be counterfeiting.

If you own a software license for a single device, you can install it on any device you wish; but you cannot install it on multiple devices. If you want the software on multiple devices, you need a license that specifically allows that.

At this point, private trade organizations like the Business Software Alliance (BSA) use the courts to strictly enforce software licensing and to crack down on software piracy. If a ministry is audited by the BSA, fines are likely to range in the tens of thousands of dollars, not to mention any legal fees that may be associated with the action.

In order to protect your ministry, the Christian Law Association recommends the adoption of this software policy:

[Ministry Name] purchases and licenses the use of various computer software for ministry purposes and does not own the copyright to this software or its related documentation. Unless authorized by the software developer, [Ministry Name] does not have the right to reproduce such software for use on more than one device. Staff members may use software only on local area networks or on multiple devices according to the software license agreement. [Ministry Name] prohibits the illegal duplication of software and its related documentation. Staff members are not permitted to install any program, business or personal, onto ministry equipment without prior ministry approval.

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Securing Computers in the Christian School

Christian school administrators understandably have concerns about the safety of their students when they use the school computers, but the first step in ensuring this safety is to secure the school’s own computer systems. During the summer break is a good time to review school systems and make any needed changes. As these changes are being made, attention should be given to keeping students safe online. The Christian Law Association encourages Christian schools to consider these important protocols.

1. Identify computers that have sensitive information and make sure they are not connected to the Internet. There are, to be sure, certain advantages to having computers networked together; but these very advantages also increase the potential for security breaches. CLA recommends that ministries maintain student record information on an isolated network that is not connected to the Internet. Academic, disciplinary, and financial information about students should be offline.

2. Hire an outside systems expert to design or audit the ministry’s computer security. In today’s society, many teens have profound computer knowledge that is impressive. However, when a teen who “knows a lot about computers” volunteers to set up the Christian school’s network free of charge, this is one offer that you must refuse! Remember, the person who designs the computer system knows dozens of ways to get into the system’s back doors. Allowing a student to design—and thereby have access to—such a system is not wise!

3. Make sure your computer system is constantly updated. A qualified IT professional can help make sure that your system has the latest security releases and technology upgrades. Because of the constantly changing nature of the computer world, systems that were safe in the past may be unsafe now.

4. Require students to register online activities with the school. CLA recommends that schools require all students to register any Internet blog or website they create. Because most online activity is done under a screen name, the administration may not be able to verify the author’s identity unless accounts are registered.

Have a policy for student websites. The following policy, based on our case experience, is recommended by CLA:

5. Any student who decides to operate a personal online website or contributes to a blog must register the website/blog with the school staff. (Ex.: facebook.com, tumblr.com, twitter.com, etc.) The website must be registered immediately upon its creation. Any student who creates a website or blog prior to attending the school must register the website/blog as soon as he/she is accepted as a student. All website/blog content will be monitored on a regular basis. Any student, including homeschooled students, found with an unregistered website/blog or website/blog material that is deemed inappropriate to the purpose and mission of the school will be in direct disobedience to this ruling and will be subject to disciplinary action up to and including immediate ineligibility to attend the school.

6. Educate parents on the dangers of the Internet. While it is true that many parents are comfortable with modern technology, we have found that many parents are simply not aware of some of the dangers that their children are facing. As an educational institution, it is appropriate to provide information to parents, giving them tools that can keep their children as safe as possible.

One crucial aspect of this education is to stress that children are never to set up meetings, even group meetings, with people they have only met online! 

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Keeping Children Safe at Home

Parents have a duty to protect their children, and this is never more needful than during the summer months when children and teens are out of school and often spend hours alone at home while parents are at work. Although there is no fail-safe method, CLA recommends that parents carefully consider these tips:

1. Children should use computers only in common areas of the home where they can be monitored—never behind closed doors in their bedrooms. It is extremely unwise to allow children and teenagers unmonitored computer access when they are home alone.

2. Talk with your child often about how to remain safe on the Internet. Let your child know you regularly check computer history as well as email and chat messages.

3. Require your child to use nicknames on social media and networking sites and never to share identifying information about themselves or the family in social networking profiles. Your child should be told to keep passwords secret from everyone but you.

4. Remind your child that millions of people can potentially see anything they post online and these messages and photos will never go away. Teach your child to think before posting.

5. Remind your child of the dangers associated with arranging an in-person meeting with anyone they have met only in cyberspace.

6. Monitor any social networking sites your child uses. Make sure your child “friends” you and makes their personal settings “private.”

7. Watch for signs of cyberbullying and tell your child to report such activity to you immediately, whether it involves them or a friend. Encourage them to help others who are being subjected to cyberbullying by alerting an adult.

8. Make sure to retain all evidence of cyberbullying, including emails and text messages.

The Internet is a powerful tool, much like a loaded gun. If parents allow their children to go online, they must make certain that careful safety guidelines are in place. It takes only one incident for tragedy to result.

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Safety Tips for Social Media

The power of social networking is hard to imagine. Facebook, currently the largest online social network in the world, has roughly three billion active users per month. Social media can be dangerous enough for adults, but children are particularly susceptible to being harmed. While no set of guidelines can provide complete security, CLA recommends these guidelines for students.

  1. Do not allow a child under the age of 13 to create a Facebook account. The social media giant prohibits anyone under the age of 13 to create an account. If a person under the age of 13 creates an account, it will likely result in Facebook terminating the account.

2. If your teenager does not personally know someone who is requesting to be “friends,” they should not accept the request. This policy also applies to adults.

3. Create the strongest password possible to protect your account from being hacked. If you have any suspicion that your account may be hacked, it is best to change your password. If your account is hacked, it is important to immediately report this to Facebook. 

4. Only post photos or ideas that you want to make public. Never post anything personal or embarrassing, because it could affect your testimony or work situation. Recently, a woman was fired after calling in sick then posting something that made it apparent she wasn’t ill.

5. Manage your privacy settings. The default choice makes all of your information, photos, and posts available to anyone who wishes to look at it. It is very wise to set your profile to “private.” By adjusting privacy settings, most of your content is not accessible by people who are not your friends.

6. Be careful when responding to friends or loved ones who request any type of monetary help on Facebook. Be sure to verify in person or by calling that the message is legitimate and their account was not hacked or cloned.

7. Only post broad information about your geographical location. Listing a state or very large city is fine, but never post an address or the name of a small town. This could jeopardize your personal safety. Additionally, never post that you are home alone. This is especially true for teenagers. Criminals and child predators could use this information to their advantage. 

8. Block anyone who sends you inappropriate messages or wall posts. If anyone posts content that is suggestive, pornographic, or threatening in any way, report them to Facebook.

9. You should never post your personal address, email, telephone number or any other personal contact information on your profile. 

10. Report to Facebook anything else that seems suspicious.

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Protecting God’s Church

The church is not a building. The church body is the group of people who join together and worship God in one accord. But the church is not held captive in the sanctuary. Our church expands far beyond the walls and into the daily lives of all who believe. However, today’s culture wants to rip the fabric of the church apart. There’s no denying that. Every day, our legal ministry is contacted by a believer who is shocked that someone is suing his church, and we step up to defend him. A vast majority of these calls describe legal situations that are happening about which you would think NEVER IN AMERICA. But they do happen. Every day.

What can you do? Is the battle too hard? Below are a few things you can do.

1. Pray for our country, and let us know! Pray for these legal issues. Nothing is too hard for God. 

2. Stand. Stand for what the Bible says is right. Do not give in on Biblical principles.

3. Give. Give of your time to witness. Give of your resources to your church and to those causes that protect your rights. Give of yourself, and God will reward your stewardship.

Today, we received dozens of phone calls and emails in our office. One was a call from a pastor who is devastated by legal action taken against his church. A mother dialed our office from a school where her child was being forced to participate in anti-Biblical rituals. Another call was from a Christian who was simply inviting a co-worker to a church dinner and was reprimanded by his boss. These believers just wanted to obey God’s Word and handled their situations with the utmost grace, but the culture is now targeting Christians. 

You have the right to do what’s right! We are here to stand with you. Please stand firm and allow CLA to be your legal missionaries along the way. 

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And Let Us Run with Patience

A dear pastor and his wife in the Midwest found themselves in the middle of the unthinkable. Without ever violating a law or even an ethical standard, they found themselves being sued for the faith. Because they had little experience with the law and legal proceedings, they expected for their situation to be resolved speedily. They had no idea that their case would take years.

To begin with, this couple had to accept the fact that the preparations for a trial can take a lot longer than one might imagine. They had no way of anticipating how much time it would take to deal with the tedious legal details.

Finally, their case got to court. Though the facts were definitely on their side, the jury came back with a guilty verdict. Their hearts were crushed, but now they had to go through the long process of appealing their case.

When the appellate court heard their case, they actually won. But the day they won, they responded, “We are surely grateful for this legal victory. But this case has consumed so much of our lives for more than four years that even winning seems hollow. We are thankful, but we are exhausted.”

This story, of course, could be told over and over. There is a reason the old adage says, “The wheels of justice turn slowly.” People who watch court cases mustn’t be disheartened when they don’t receive the outcome they had hoped for because the case may be won on appeal. People who are in the midst of court cases need patience as they deal with legal matters day in and day out, especially when they feel that there is no end in sight.

At the Christian Law Association, we are thankful when certain matters can be handled expeditiously, when they can be “nipped in the bud,” so to speak. But we also covet your prayers as our legal missionaries spend an enormous amount of time on difficult cases. Though our experienced attorneys do unparalleled work on the cases, all of us benefit from having more patience.

We humbly ask that you pray for good and Godly people who are in the midst of legal struggles at this moment, that you pray for our legal staff as they tend to these difficult and tedious cases, and that you pray for our nation as many important cases slowly make their way through the legal system. We surely need God’s gracious hand of blessing, and we need to be patient people.

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Christianity and the Declaration of Independence

The Declaration of Independence is a document at the very core of our American system of government. Signed on July 4, 1776, the Declaration set in motion a chain of events that would lead to the Revolutionary War, the independence of the United States, and the establishment of an unbelievably effective system of government. There are several aspects of the Declaration of Independence that are decidedly Christian, and we will examine each of them briefly.

People Were Created by God

The Declaration of Independence includes this famous quotation:

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

Unpacking this statement, it is clear that the Founding Fathers believed that humans have a Creator. They acknowledged that human life came from God. Further, the Declaration asserts that God Himself created humans and gave them certain rights. Since rights like life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness were given to mankind by God, they cannot be taken away by the State.

This statement from the Declaration of Independence is not a neutral statement. It is a statement that honors God the Creator and recognizes that human governments cannot and should not overthrow divine principles.

All Men Are Created Equal

The Declaration, of course, asserts that all people are created equal. Even though they did not fully live out this idea in regards to slavery at the time, the Christian idea about the equality of humans would eventually be adopted more and more in the American system of government, culminating in a time when slavery would be abolished.

When America first articulated this Christian ideal in the Declaration of Independence, there were still thousands of men and women on our soil who were not yet being treated as equals because they were slaves. Although it took more than two hundred years, a bloody Civil War, and an ongoing civil rights movement to achieve it, this doctrine of equality, which has always been enshrined as an ideal in the Declaration, slowly became a reality for everyone. 

In 1890, historian Richard Frothingham wrote,

[A] low view of man was exerting its full influence when Rome was at the height of its power and glory. Christianity then appeared with its central doctrine, that man was created in the Divine image, and destined for immortality; pronouncing that, in the eye of God, all men are equal. This asserted for the individual an independent value. It occasioned the great inference, that man is superior to the State, which ought to be fashioned for his use. This was the advent of a new spirit and a new power in the world.

Ultimately, the eradication of slavery in the United States is rooted in the Christian ideal of the equality of mankind.

The Declaration’s Very Words Have Christian Sources

Not only the concepts but the very words of the Declaration of Independence are rooted in Christianity. When Thomas Jefferson wrote the Declaration of Independence, he did so with a great deal of input from those who had gone before him. He did a masterful job of setting forth our nation’s reasons for coming into being, but his thoughts were not original. As political science professor, Donald S. Lutz, observed, “[T]here was nothing new in the phrasing and ideas of the Declaration.”

Jefferson drew many of his ideas from John Locke and William Blackstone, both Biblical Christians. He also reflected the work of a group of twenty-seven Scotch-Irish church elders in Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, who drafted their own Declaration in May 1775, under the direction of Elder Ephraim Brevard, a graduate of Princeton. A comparison of the Declaration of Independence with the Mecklenburg Declaration of Independence reveals many similar phrases.

In declaring the endowment of these unalienable rights, Jefferson was also influenced by George Mason’s “Virginia Declaration of Rights” which said: 

That all men are by nature equally free and independent and have certain inherent rights, of which, when they enter into a state of society, they cannot, by any compact, deprive or divest their posterity; namely, the enjoyment of life and liberty, with the means of acquiring and possessing property, and pursuing and obtaining happiness and safety.

Much of the wording of the Declaration itself is rooted in the work of Christian ideas as expressed by Godly people of Jefferson’s generation.

Self-Evident Truths

When Thomas Jefferson wrote that certain truths were self-evident, he was referring to truth that is known intuitively as a direct revelation from God without the need for proof, discussion or debate. For example, there is no need to prove that man is created in the image of God. It is assumed. Black is not white, round is not square, and men are not angels. These are all facts of nature that, as human beings, we are able to reason and understand without further proof. 

It cannot be refuted that Christianity had a great impact on the Declaration of Independence. At the Christian Law Association, it is our honor to defend the Constitution of the United States when enemies of the Gospel attempt to use the law to thwart Christian ministries. We ask for your prayer as we continuously labor on behalf of God’s people.

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Are We Making the Lord Look Good?

An excerpt from Across the Miles, Vol. 1 by Attorney David C. Gibbs, Jr.

My paternal grandfather wasn’t well educated. He left school after fifth grade because he didn’t want to repeat it for the third time; and once he left, he had to make a living. The one thing he knew how to do was butcher a cow. So, he got a cow, butchered it, and took it to town to sell it. He got up the next day and did the same. That business grew until, by the time I came along, my dad, his brothers, and Granddad were slaughtering five to seven thousand head of cattle a week and putting them in semis and sending them everywhere. He wasn’t well educated, but he knew how to give a thousand men a full-time job. 

Granddad had an amazing attitude toward the Bible. If I heard him say it once, I probably heard it a thousand times: “Life’s real simple. If the Bible says it, you do it.” That was it. “You don’t have to understand it, but if God said it, you do it.” 

He also believed that we are to put others above ourselves. He called me in one day and said, “Davey, I have a job for you to do.” 

“Sure, Grandpa. What can I do?” 

“We got this farmer’s cattle too cheap.” 

I looked at him and said, “No, no, we just got a sweet deal. We got a top bid at the auction. We didn’t do anything illegal.”

He shot back, “Son, I didn’t say we did anything illegal. I said we bought them too cheap. I have a duty before God to watch out for that farmer. And I have a duty to God not to do to him what I wouldn’t want him to do to me. Do you understand that, son?” 

“Yes, sir.”

“Would you want him to buy your cattle too cheap?” 

“Of course not, Grandpa.” 

“Then don’t you ever do it to someone else. I put money in this envelope. Take it to the farmer and tell him we’re Christians, and we’re sorry, and we don’t do this.” 

That farm was 300 miles away in Ohio, and it was in the dead of winter. By the time I reached that farm, it was nine o’clock at night, and snow was flying everywhere. I walked up onto the porch in the dark and knocked, and a lady peeped out from behind the curtains before she opened the door. 

I told her, “Ma’am, my name is Dave Gibbs, and my grandpa sent me here tonight to apologize. We’re Christians, and we bought your cattle too cheap, and we don’t do that. We want to make it right, so here,” I said as I held out that envelope of money toward her. 

She opened it and began crying, so hard that her nose started bleeding. By that time, her husband had walked to the door, and he’s hugging her as she says, “What kind of man does this?” 

I’ll never forget her husband’s reply: “A Christian, Honey. A real one.” 

My dad and granddad did a lot of cattle judging. They judged many large competitions like the Western National Livestock Show and others, but their passion was judging 4-H cattle, and they’d take me along. I couldn’t judge, but if those 4-H kids raised a steer, they had to sell it. I was there to buy those steers. So, Granddad would give me popcorn, peanuts, and a Coke and tell me, “Here’s what you do. Every steer that comes in, you start the bidding at two dollars a pound.” 

You could have bought any of those animals for sixty or sixty-five cents a pound. A dollar a pound was high. Two dollars a pound was exorbitant! But I did just what he said. Every one that came in, I’d look at the auctioneer and say, “Two dollars.” 

Pretty soon, people who wanted to buy those steers started asking, “Little Gibbs, what we gotta do to get you off that two bucks?” 

“Ya gotta go talk to Granddad.” 

They’d look disgusted and say, “That won’t do no good. He’s doing what he thinks the Bible says to do. That’s just not gonna do any good.” 

When we bought those steers, we gave every one of those kids a Gospel tract and offered to pick them up, no matter where they lived, and take them to church. And I just sat there saying, “Two dollars a pound.” 

On the way home one day, I said from the back seat, “Grandpa, we spent a bunch of money today we didn’t have to spend.” 

He stopped that car right on the highway, turned around, and said, “Son, don’t you ever forget this. Number one, it wasn’t your money. Number two, it wasn’t my money. It was God’s money, and we made the Lord look good today. Don’t you ever say we spent what we didn’t have to when we made the Lord look good.” 

      “31 And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise….36 Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful….38 Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.” (Luke 6:31, 36, 38) 

Are we the real deal, or has the world so conformed us that we are just out for ourselves? Do we make the Lord look good in the way we deal with others? 

I made similar trips more than once carrying money for sellers, and so did others who worked for my grandfather. When Grandpa passed away, the viewing was scheduled for noon to eight at night, then the funeral was to be the next morning. They had to postpone the funeral for two and a half days because thousands of farmers showed up in Ohio from Texas, Montana, Illinois, Michigan… in fact, from all over the U.S. During those two-and-a-half days, I stood and listened as person after person said, “Let me tell you what you don’t know about your granddad.” 

At the end of the trail, what will people say about you? 

The lady from my first trip came and hugged my neck as she said, “Little Gibbs, be like your granddad. There’s not too many of them. Be real.” 

Christians, we have forgotten what we are commanded to do. Are we making the Lord look good today?